Step 2: Finding Him

Finding him- the ultimate step...till now it was only preparations, but now you are jumping to the well. I said "jump" because, once you do it, its not easy to come out...So think again and if still you feel so, read further...

I dont have much to say about 'finding him' in a love marriage, because that happens naturally without any outside support...but if its an arranged marriage, you will get lot of external support;

1. Parents- the ultimate support
2. matrimonial sites- of great help
3. marriage brokers, friends, relatives etc- not of much help
4. YOU- the ultimate victim

When parents do the googling, they mainly look for Religion, Caste, Family Status, Guy's Salary, Home, education and the looks. If 70% is ok, they will send the horoscope for further processing. This is a standard, tested format. Many parents aquire new tech skills to get their daughters married, like my father learned to use the internet for finding right guy. Parents who cant do this, get blames from impatient daughters. If your parents are not upto your expectations, push them, motivate them as they did when your were ready for your board exams, this is their test of life...

Now marriage sites and you- take a paper, write your expectations- your imaginations, dreams, looks, age difference etc...now just open bharat matrimony.com, if its your first experience I am sure you ll be surprised- not just one, but hundreds of them, d guy of your dreams...take one hour every day for this search, finally its your life...

Now when you write your imaginations, please dnt forget to write your dream of future life- you want to live with him only, or in a family, in India or outside etc etc...Ultimately your own horoscope as perfect as possible

See you later