Are you ready to marry? To answer this, I need to think why I got married;
1. I turned 26
2. Most of my friends and batch-mates got married
3. My parents are getting older day by day and wanted to relive from the tension
4. Gold prices are soaring
And, now after three years I am forced to rethink why I got married...
Age:- If age is the reason you want to marry, I recommend you marry at 21. At 21 you need a guy. At 21 you feel u cant live without him,he is the only reason for your existence. Once you cross 21, its another world, you r gonna taste freedom which will make you mad (nd bad too)...
Friends got married:- Facebook is raining with pictures of your batchmate's wedding, their honeymoon, kids and sunny pictures of "happily living ever after". I believe this is a true inspiration, but keep control
Parental pressure:- This is something u cant ignore. My mother just said she will go for a pilgrimage, if I don't get married at 26. But u can't blame them, a daughter is like a fuming volcano. She needs to be in the "safe" hands of a partner before its too late...
Gold Prices:- Some thing you cant control
But when I think about it, I feel I got married not because of any of these reasons; but because I can be with someone i can grow old with,because its better to be together and quarrel often than to weep alone in rain, because there are certain moments in your life which you desperately want to share...
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